*Warning, this blog has cursing.
**Warning, almost all my blogs have cursing.
Lately I have seen some friends go into battle with each other, I do not participate in this.
I let my Drama Llama go years ago. Fly free llama, fly free.
But what is disturbing to me is the heightened use of people, specifically women, calling other women “Bitch.”
Google Defines Bitch as,
1.a female dog, wolf, fox, or otter.
2.informalderogatorya spiteful or unpleasant woman.
a person who is completely subservient to another.“he will always be her bitch”So let me get this straight. You are either a female dog, or you are male and are being put down by being called an insulting female slur.Yeah. I don’t know. I have used the word, but mostly at inanimate objects.Stub my toe, the coffee table is a bitch.
Burn the toast, the toaster is the upgraded, SonofaBITCH.
And, if I am in full blown Southern mode, and am really in pain, or dealing with jerk-off drivers on the highway,
I have been known to bust out, “SOOOOMMMM’BITCH” The convenient Southern condensed version.But there is something about women calling other women “Bitch.” I mean sometimes there are people who truly fit that definition, but then I keep going back to the fact that we are calling each other dogs. Even the term “Asshole” is something we all have. It isn’t gender insulting is my point.Hows about we make up a new word that doesn’t compare us to dogs.I can’t think of any right now, but any suggestions will be taken into consideration.Or maybe, one day the woman on woman hating will cease.I am currently in an inactive war with an old friend, but outside of that, I don’t want to fight with anyone. Or name call.At the end of the day, I tend to just say, “Fuck her.” Or “Fuck him.” This for some reason feels less offensive than the Bitch moniker. Again, gender neutral.I also deplore “Slut.” I am no hard core feminist, but this is strictly a female insult. The most I can think of that is gender specific for men is “Dick.” That just makes sense because they have one.
To summarize, insult with equality folks. It is less insulting.
You know what I mean.As Always,Woman on PausePhoto Credit.